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i had a "cutting" phase... so i think i can help
first of all you don't really want to bring it up to him that you know he cuts himself or say anything about it just try to be as good of a friend as you can he probably needs some1 right now you should be that some1.and like some1 above me said if you find anything they can cut themselves w/ try to act shocked it does make them want to change so over just be the best friend you can be: be there for him, talk to him, listen to what he has to say, etc... try to always be doing something w/ him so he doesnt find a chance to want to cut himself
hope i helped it helped me :D
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if hes trying to kill himself tell him to get some help.
first of all i think you should help your friend get away from that guy because he is probably way to emotional and too sensitive. So he keep tries to cut himself. The only way i can see to help him is to face his problems with him, if that makes sense.
He won't stop trying to cut himself until one day he realizes that you can't go kill your self if something happens bad, or really bad.
Normal people just live and learn!
Let him know that you are there for him if he needs to talk.
If possible, he should see a doctor so he can be referred for counselling.
You have to tell someone before it gets worse. Even if he says that he does not want to kill himself, one day he may cut too deep on accident. Trust me, you would never feel good if something does happen and you stood by instead of trying to help.
First off, being emo is a lifestyle chioce, not a fad. You cannot be a look-alike and not be a do-alike.
well you might need to really sit down with him and talk to him...this might not sound nice to him but you can say that he is just being selfish and that he needs to realize that he hurts others doing this not just himself. i think professional help is needed if he doesn't listen to anyone. i know people who have gotten over it, and he just needs to realize he is a bigger person then that, and he needs to be strong for himself and everyone else, tell him that cutting yourself shows him being weak
What he really needs is someone to kick the crap out of him so he won't be such a punk about things. Things don't always work out and many times things just suck, but he has to realize that cutting his arm isn't going to change anything.
If you told your school, the would bring his parents and him together to talk to a child psychologist and they'd basically shrink him down and take away his knives. And that would work, but he may not be so sweet after wards. But it would help him out. But it's summer so you'd have to wait.
But maybe until then, let his parents know before he really hurts himself.
Not all people who cut do it because they want to die, it can feel like an escape, or a distraction. Or it can help you to feel, sometimes you get numb and feeling the sting of a blade is better than feeling nothing at all. People like this need someone to talk to, someone who knows what to say to them, a professional.
I have a a girlfriend with this same thing go and always be with him as much as you can, do not take attention off of him, dont bring it up at all, and when you see ne thing he can cut him self with (blades, tin foil, anything sharp) in a room where it is not supposed to be walk by it with him and act shocked, they hate when u find there tools, it makes them feel bad, but not to cut, but to change. just always be there and talk a lot!!
i would be extremely nice to him all of the time and be with him as much as you can. every time you find a razor or something he can cut with, be suprized! he might get mad, but it might make him feel bad. dont mention anything about it but clue in that you know about it and you really want him to stop. tell him you dont like it when people cut and you will be there for them when they do. just be there for him always
yeah..my best friend cuts her arm all the time she started doing that maybe 3 years ago but last month..she kept cutting that she was bleeding so bad!...she fainted & we had to take her to hospital..THAT FREAKED ME OUT!
but..if i know a way to help you i would've helped myself
..sorry
well I guess he must be emo sense he's cutting him self and the fact that you said hes really sweet get him REAL help quick cuz he can bleed to death and die I think pro help is what he really needs