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On the contrary. I'm waaaay to blunt; I just blurt out whatever I feel without any regard for the consequences! My big mouth has gotten me into trouble before, but apparently I never learn. The only progress I've made is just to keep my mouth shut if I know people won't appreciate what I have to say. I could never give a fake compliment or something like that. I believe honesty is always the best policy. If people don't appreciate you for who you are then that's their problem not yours. Don't try to change who you are to please others. Just be yourself and forget about what others think about you. As long as you are not hurting anybody or anything like that then it's really no body's business. JUST BE YOUR NATURAL OLD SELF!
Hmm, yes I guess, sometimes maybe. But it's my life and if I weant to treat it like it's fake then it's my buisness.
I always say things that i would never do but i hink i should..
I dont know what you mean
no I can't even fake enough to do white lies
Yes, only when I'm around people that I don't know well. I act all nice, outgoing and giddy when really I don't care enough to even talk to them.
Just try to be yourself around friends and family. I feel like that to sometimes, but you just gotta be yourself. :-)
write down everything that you've lied about the past month
then tell everyone you lied to the truth.
tadaah! no more guilt!!
i feel like that when im around my almost boyfriend... we're transitioning into more than just friends... and sometimes i say things just to please him...and i don't even know if they're working. im not talking about wierd stuff. im just not myself around him latley.
if you find the answer, let me know :]
yess! the way i talk. you know those stereotypical blondes in the movies who like totally talk like this?! i feel like i talk like that a lot..and i feel like i pretend to be happy for someone when i'm really jealous...idk i hate it so much. but i think it's probably all in your mind. if you realize it and make an attempt to get better, then you're not fake. :]
I never feel that way because I don't pretend to be something I'm not... Be genuine.. and you'll never feel that way... unless of course you are mentally unstable.
You mean like me answering this question and giving you a totally made up bullshit answer.
sounds like you're feeling a bit lost.just stay true to yourself.
Yes, in some ways...I feel like I'm not completely honest with people, even strangers, so that I don't hurt their feelings or make them think that I'm a b word. And it leaves me feeling fake. Good question.
The only way to change it, if you are in my same position...is to decide who you want to make happier, you or others. If you aren't doing anything to harm others or yourself...you need to be around people with your same ideas/likes/desires as yourself. There is a huge catch 22 to this... sometimes, again sometimes, being nice to others is its own reward. ~To Thine Own Self Be True~
Yeah, I definitely feel that. Sometimes it is like I have so many facades to please so many people that I can't even remember who I was trying to hide in the first place. Sometimes everything is fake and it's almost impossible to find the real you through all the lies.
Don't let your mind fool you my friend. what are you describing happens but it's how you interpret it in your mind, you say you feel you're fake, may be it's not the right word, because may be, just may be, it's not what is really happening there inside.
You can and should control and guide your mind to get out of this feeling. especially when you convince youself that you are passing through a "phase" or something.
you ll pass that stronger if you do heighten your awareness level.