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You're not lazy ! don't bother to justify yourself; jus leave them to be ignorant. Blimey i think you're a credit to the male race ! WELL DONE.
You shouldn't have to explain youself to them and if they are at the school the same time as you, it's more likely they dont have a job and are scumbags
They are losers.
These people dont mtter, thaty are judging you by there own standards and assuming you are at home all day. You work so hard at a job other people would find too challenging to do, you dont have to justify your life to anyone. Best of luck
because they are ignorant, ignore them.
You know in your own mind that you are not , as you have gathered and analyzed enough evidence .
Getting positive replies to your question is not going to help as the ones who say you are lazy aren't really inters ted , I think you are carrying unnecessary guilt , please ask yourself why?
But one thing that one never hears nowadays is 'Charity begins at home''. Think on that for life balance
Not sure why they would call you that at all. Have you spoken to them before or jdo they just shout out abuse to you for no reason? Why dont you say something to them?
Ignore it.
You know you work hard so don't let it get to you.
You don't need reassurance from us..you should be confident in yourself.
My Husbands stays at home whilst I work, We have 2 kids, one on the Autistic scale so someone has to be at home.
We get quite a lot of stupid comments about my 'lazy' Husband staying at home whilst I work...it makes me cross but I have learnt to ignore peoples ignorance...it works beautifully for us!!!
The people calling you lazy obviously have no clue how hard you and your partner work to provide for your family. I say screw all those ignorant sods and continue to be such good people. Your job sounds very challenging and must be mentally tiring as well as physically. Also your wifes job must get stressfull so i say hats off to the both of you for being such hard working and decent people. I think your children are lucky to have you.
I am totally clueless. Since you care what these people think, maybe you should ask them why they are calling you nasty names. Otherwise, chalk them up as being idiots and don't worry about it.
Ignore them and if this is all the work you do you certainly are not lazy!
Other people donot matter. Its what your family think of you, you do as worthwhile job and probably get little recognition for it. You do your best for your wife and family keep up the good work. People dont have anything better to do so just ignore them let them, try and juggle what you do
You are not lazy at all, and you shouldn't have to put up with any one judging you. Some one has to pick the kids up from school. I am a stay at home mum, with three children, and my husband works hard. I allways pick my kids up, but sometimes my husband will come with me if he has finished earlier because he started earlier, or has a rare day off. No one has ever called him lazy or me for that matter. I don't go to work, but I am at home with my one year old all day and cleaning and cooking, and washing and ironing etc. What rights do these people have to call you names. Tell them to grow up and shut up. Tell them how hard you work and ask them what they do all day. They are just ignorant. They are probably lazy them selves. Keep up the hard work, but do try to make time for your family.It is very important that the children see both parents. Take care.
You know otherwise but if it bothers you just stop the car lean out of the window and tell them you work a 60 hour week and this is your day off. Then politely tell them in future to worry about their own sad little lives.