As a person im very caring and warm. I look kinda cute, some have said so.
But will girls think a second time about me? Do they might think that I will be problematic to have a relationship with?
Thank you kindly for reading all this :)
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i would be a little worried. i mean, i would just wonder what could be wrong with you that you've never had a girl before.but, i think it would be a turn on if someone had the guts to admit that. that's like being so honest & really putting yourself out there. so, the best advice i could give you is keep it real. i'm sure that alone will more than equal out the whole no relationship experience thing to almost any girl.
Not at all!! I would much rather have a boyfriend who's never had a girlfriend than one who's been around the block a few times. dont worry.. the right girl will come.
Of course not, as long as you have confidence. Girls like guys who are confident. It doesn't matter how many girls you have been with, if you are confident, they will be crazy about you.
in one word NO when girls get older they don't care about such things and most the time its personality that counts. and at the end of the day they will not know if you have had a gf or not unless you tell them so. take care Lisa
no, I wouldn't think you are unattractive just because you didn't have a GF by 21. In contrast, I will think you are a cautious person who takes relationship seriously and not just because your peers are doing it. Just be yourself.
In answer to your first question, would girls think you're unattractive? Attraction isn't just about looks - or it shouldn't be. Attraction is about the mind, the behavior and the characteristics a person has. If you have the qualities that appeal to the opposite sex, then you will be attractive to someone.
It isn't necessary to offer a personal history upon meeting a girl. This is very private and no one will know unless you tell her. Give a girl time to get to know you and the rest won't matter. I salute you for surviving a most difficult childhood. I hope you are still participating in therapy. It will continue to help you throughout your life and with whatever life brings you.
Noway! 21 who's never had a girlfriend? I wouldnt find u unattractive.
I know some boys who r in their 20's n r just starting to have their 1st girlfriend/relationships =]
So dont u worry bout that, just be yourself & goodluck mate ;]
hey fred dont worry about man im 22 and ive never had a girlfriend, a lot people start to think im gay but im not im 100% straight its just i aint interested for soem reason i dont get the urge to go out and meet someone i enjoy my own company :P , playign my guitar going out with my friends and that but when im ready im sure that i wont be judged on how many notches on the post ive had all that matters is that you know ,youre the man
usually they will, cause a women's minds run rapid and they think of every possible thing that could happen, and when you tell them that they will most likely drift away, what to do? Do not tell them until you build a little relationship with them, let them like you first and don't bring it on so hard, kind of ease it in. See I've never had a girlfriend either, but it is because I don't have the balls to start a conversation, I always choke. This lack of confidence is do to my childhood. If I could get passed this hill then I would be alright. I hope this helps and the best luck to you, cause I know it sucks!!!