As a person im very caring and warm. I look kinda cute, some have said so.
But will girls think a second time about me? Do they might think that I will be problematic to have a relationship with?
Thank you kindly for reading all this :)
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i personally think thats a good thing, we know your not a player, and we know u dont have STD's...
What is most important is how you feel about yourself.You have had a rough ride up until now but your outlook and attitude will attract people to you or send them running. Feel good about who you are and what you have accomplished and girls will find you.
it depends on the girl, but it is generally not unattractive. I think you have to have a lot of courage to admit it and if a girl looks down on you for it, she is just not classy enough for you.
Well I'm a girl who has had some boyfriends...but i would have no problem dating a guy that has never had girlfriends by age 21. that means he has not developed any bad habits (like treating girls badly)...especially if you're cute..it would be no big deal at all
Don't worry! Great guys are that, regardless. Focus on becoming friends with girls, and see what develops. Don't try to force anything. In the big picture, 21 is wonderfully young.
It depends on what you show them. If you are a fun person to be around and don't seem to be caught up in your past , you'll be fine.
If your bi polar than girls may think twice. Alot of girls may be excited by your inexperience. They'll know right off that your not a player.
I wouldn't use the whole life story bit as an opener though. Let them find out who you are and where you've been w/ time.
Your right that girls might avoid you if they know your history, in attempts to avoid any baggage you may be carrying.
Just be yourself and be confident in your ability to find a good girl. The rest is natural and shouldn't take much planning.
Try yahoo personals if you can't find girls in passing.
Good luck!
i think its great that u have waited, u cant say that about 98% of guys in america. me personally i wouldnt think u would be a problem, it doesnt really matter as long as u are faithful and caring
Dude I am 19 and never had a girlfrien
any girl who judges you negatively because of your situation is not worth having as a girlfriend. get out there with confidence and those worth your time will like you.
I don't think it really matters. Also, you don't need to be telling someone all your past history right away.
I wouldn't worry about it.
My sister never had a boyfriend until she was 20..
It all worked out fine for her.
Just be confident, and don't think bad about yourself just because you never had a girlfriend before.