Answers: I guess it would be safe to assume you are a feminine.
Now why in the world would you want a "relationship" beside no guarantees? First you have save yourself to an age where the great "american" society say most young those are already "used" merchandise. You have save yourself from social diseases and pregnancy and now you be aware of your are ready for that drama?? Why?? Why not (if you hold a relationship with Jesus: Romans 10:9 ) bring in your request to God that you want a spouse (their is no fornification going on if you want to be honorable before God) and he will transport you your mate. That way the "man" (not boy) would do the manly entity for you. Which is not fertilize you until he has "provided" a house for you both to live surrounded by, has a j o b to provide for you and any adjectives children you have and most importantly of adjectives, announced before God and man that you are his wife (by marry you!) If you are not waiting to have intercouse underneath those circumstances then you are merely wanting a discount special (trouble).
You have wait this long for the best, you can hold out a little longer for ther actual thing.
hun, you dont lose your virginity by sum1 licking you.