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Sounds like you both have some growing up to do. As he gets more experience he will be better able to last and as you learn how to make your own body work you will know how to get him to please you first. ~GL
Tell him to keep his mind off the sex and he should be able to last longer if he's just going through the motions. I haven't had sex before but to me that sounds like it should work.
Girl on Top.it gives less stimulation (ie, why he loses it quickly) to his member. Try slowing down a little bit and yes, slow breathing should work. He will start to build up a tolorance, just give it a little bit more time.
When he is about to ejaculate press the area between the anus and the balls. i forgot what it's called... i think they call it pernium.
Anyway pressing it will stop the fluids from secreting thus giving you more time to have fun in bed again
Get him the guide on Mistermanpower.com. There are various methods of lasting longer that have worked for me
He could take a low-dose SSRI type antidepressant several hours before sex. But your boyfriend is very normal for a 17 year old.
MAYBE YOU SHOULDNT DO IT LIKE RABBITS GIVE HIM SOME TIME TO GET SOME STAMINA, IT TAKES A WHILE TO BECOME A PRO. IN THE MEANTIME, BUY A DILDO.
he's just inexperienced, it should get better over time.
Hurt him. The application of a little pain should be sufficient to distract him.
Unfortunately this level of conditioning can very easily lead to other "things".
try the word resting...
anyhow, tell him to eat and exercise more...!