Well to put a long story short it turned out that she was in fact a man called steven who was a pre opt transexual in the 'transition' perod. I felt so betrayed and discusted. How can i pick myself up emotional after this and has this ever happened to any of you?
Answer:
Never date a women with razor stubble on their face unless she is from eastern europe...
In answer to your questions...
No.
Scrape yourself off the floor, wash, rinse, repeat if required.
Well, it happens. Just move on and chalk it up to experience.
There's all kinds of folks out there. I did meet a woman who I had my suspicions of being a transsexual. After our second date he confessed. I just ended it the relationship. He got nothing more than a kiss on the cheek after the first date.
Never happened to me. However, it did to you, and you need to get over it. It happened, and you found out, thank goodness. Now just move on. You were fooled and betrayed, so you have NOTHING to feel guilty about whatsoever!! Good luck.
Chow!!
Rent the movie "the Crying Game." It'll help you understand how you were fooled.
You did nothing wrong. Just move on. You may have been an enormous help to this man at a difficult stage in his lonely life. Is that such a terrible thing? He should have been honest with you, but, I repeat, YOU did nothing wrong.
She wasn't a man, she was a transsexual woman.
You were attracted to her, she (presumably) was attracted to you. She did nothing wrong; she didn't choose to be born transsexual.
There is no reason for you to feel 'betrayed and disgusted'.