Why would a man turn down a 3some with another woman and his wife when it would be totally my idea and I'd find the 3rd and set up everything?
Serious answers please.
Answer:
He probably knows it would bring up insecurities you have later. Or quite possibly, he just doesn't want one! Why are you questioning it? I'd be glad. It's rather stereotypical to believe every man would want one.
Some men just like it one on one
I would be totally uncomfortable in that situation. First of all, that's adultery, and secondly, he's supposed to love you and only you in an intimate kind of way. Why would you want to do that to your relationship. Even if it might have been physically enjoyable, I don't see how any respectable man could do that and live with himself afterwards. It's like a slap in the face to your marriage. If I was asked that, it would make me think my wife wanted to do that so I would be open to having a threesome with another man. I just think that was a really bad idea. (By the way, this is all in theory, I'm not actually married)
seems to me you don't know your husband that well. if you thought every man would like to have sex with other women beside his wife, then you are quite wrong. I for one am very loyal to my fiancee.
Maybe hes nervous about it or maybe he isnt interested in sharing you with anyone. You should ask if he would be upset if just you and another woman did your thing one night, you might be surprised!!
Well i would certainly think my wife is looking for greener pastures if she comes up with an idea like this one. I would feel that she is not satisfied with our sexual relationship, and it would make me feel unworthy.
I would imagine it would be hard to perform if your woman is giving you the 'ol' evil eye' while you're banging her friend. This request also throws up a red flag that maybe you're okay with being with another guy(or maybe this is what you're really wanting). it just can be a bad decision in the end.
Maybe he wants to remain focused and not tempt fate or subject himself to temptation, as he is already happy and content with his choice of a good woman and a committed relationship, and is a serious and disciplined guy. It sounds like you have that most valuable/employable/worthy and rare commodity.a good man. The type fo guy you want watching your back, when youre in a trench, you're down to your last 8 rounds, and they're coming over the wire. oops...too many movies.
Maybe he ws afraid you were actually attracted to women and he would lose you to a lesbian. (It happened on Friends, remember?)
He probably couldn't bare the thought of you making love to some one else but him.
bcos then u will next suggest to have it with another guy and that is so not acceptable to most husbands. then u guys are gonna quarrel and he ends up with nothing. u will also not let him 4get what u did for him.
let him suggest it, then he's got no way out.
Believe it or not, some guys truly are not turned on by the thought of 2 women. I've met them and dated them. Most of course are, but there are several who just aren't programmed that way. That's fine.
Two good reasons:
1. He may feel like it's a trap.
2. He's intimidated by the thought of having to please two woman at the same time, and who could blame him.
3. He couldn't be comfortable with you seeing him finding pleasure in another woman, even though it was your idea.
Quite honestly, if my wife asked me the same question I would also have to say "No." For me sex is not just something I do to get a physical enjoyment, even though it is extremely enjoyable. Sex is one of the greatest things that can be shared between a man and a woman. For me, I would not be able to have sex with someone I was not in love with.
If my wife asked me to do a 3some, I would have to ask her if she would mind if I dated the other woman for awhile. Relationship is the #1 key to great sex. Anything else is cheap.
i wouldn't want a threesome with my wife. it takes away from sharing true love making with somebody special to just having sex. if it's just sex, i guess it doesn't matter.
Good, honest responses. I'd add that it could also be a performance issue. He may be comfortable performing for you, but unsure about performing for an "audience". Plus guys often have a hard time getting that second erection quickly, so he could get off quickly then might not be able to get back into the ring, so to speak. Again, a performance issue.