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Well, it is true that a jerk several minutes before having a sexual encounter will help a man last longer. You also said that he "stopped wrapping it up." This makes the sensation more intense because there is no barrier. What you two can try is possibly using a de-sensitizing cream or even Trojan Extended Pleasure Condoms. He could put one on just before the foreplay begins to give the active ingredient to take effect, then take it off. I have personally used them and they do work. Sometimes too well.
Breathing techniques work as well. Read up on Tantra or Tantric Sex. It give a lot of pointers on breathing and lasting longer; it works well too.
Ultimately, you two need to sit and discuss these things. When you bring it up to him, come to him in a loving manner as to not be threatening. Let him know that you are making suggestions, but let him make the decision on how to approach this issue.
Remember, Communication is the key.
almost any sex act can become a fetish if done often enough, and if it reaches the point where he almost needs that in order to ejactulate. Sounds like this may have happenned.
Normal adult males do masturbate, even when having sex on a regular basis, but more than once a day is excessive unless you're talking about a 15 year old guy.
It is true that frequent ejactulations make them last longer, so in a sense, masturbation does help with premature ejaculation. There's also a lot of mental work and focus that goes along with that. Breathing techniques help a lot too.
He shouldn't be embarrassed about maturbation, and you shouldn't do anything to make him feel embarrased, but he shouldn't be doing it INSTEAD of having sex with you, just occasionally in addition to it.
It is also possible there is something about your being pregnant that is making him uncomfortable. That didn't happen to me when my wife was pregnant, but I have heard of guys being uncomfortable about it.
You should have a focused hear to heart where you lay all your cards on the table, but without laying blame or making him feel embarrassed. Guys get defensive quickly if they feel like they don't measure up in the bedroom, so be gentle.
I would say the reason for his early finish since he stopped wrapping it up is because he's experiencing better sensation. Maybe if you offered to lend a "helping hand" he wouldn't be going solo. However, this sounds like there is more to it than that. Try sitting him down and having an open and CALM discussion.
it sounds like the excess stress is causing all your problems, get him to calm down, relax, and expalin to him that you are having a baby together and that hes gonna be a daddy and that this baby doesnt change ur feelings for each other in anyways, try and make it a very romantic mood
maybe by you being pregnant, hes afraid he might hurt you or the baby, so instead of having sex with you, he just masturbates. it will probably get back to normal, once you have the baby.
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Toria, I delayed my answer to avoid snoopy kids reading it. If u are concerned about sex so much u better divorce with him in a year;
BUT!
1/ how do u know he’s drubbing so much? R u sure? Isn’t it your jealous imagination? Married men are not apt to drubbing;
2\ whether u divorce or not, do not stir up any discussions with him about love and lovemaking; do not press him; it will not help; it will worsen things only! You will never know what a tick there is in his head! As for him he knows his tick! But he’ll never open it to anybody, not saying of his wife;
3/ I’m blushing here but i can tell u abt myself; I was not fvcking my wife when she was pregnant, too; my tick#1: I was afraid to harm the baby! my tick#2: I felt embarrassed that baby would witness its Daddy’s gross deeds. It’s funny but I can’t help it; I feel piety for a pregnant woman!