Okay, I'm 19 years old. I'm actually kind of pretty. I'm sweet, funny, and super smart.
Why haven't I ever been asked out?
Other than the fact that I'm shy, I can't figure this out. Is it perhaps that I project this air of not letting anyone in? I've always been one of the guys. Why won't one of these guys ask me out? I've dealt with way too much rejection in my life to even dream of asking another guy out. I mean, I couldn't even get a prom date in high school.
Is it boys, or is it me?
Answer:
boys are stupid, they are probably afraid of rejection just as much as you would be.
boys get really shy around girls, (although it seems that they don't, really they are trembling in their little boots.)
just be more open when your around them, the right one will pop up when you least expect it. (promise!)
(that's how it always happens)
:) good luck!
They see you as a friend and that is it.
at the end of the day, a guy doesn't want to date "one of the guys". you must learn to use your good looks and charm to get what you want. Read up at how to flirt and make sure you always wear a smile and make eye contact.
just be yourself, and it will come in time, just take care of yourself, education, and your needs, you will meet someone when you least expect it.
Im the same exact way and I have no idea why either
its really hard to get noticed when you are the quiet kid at skool i know.
I would advise you to get more social with boys and start asfriends with them to get you notice and if what you say is right with you bieng sweet and unny, they will see that and the right boy will come along.
goodluck and dont let your shyness hold you back!
You might try developing a friendship with a boy to whom you are attracted. IYou then can suggest an outing, like lunch or somewhere you both want to go. You need to find common interests, then communication should be easier. Talk about a new movie you both would like to see, then it should be easy to suggest you both go see it. Not a date, just going somewhere with a friend. Good luck.
well r u popular?
do the guys u hangout with know u want to be a girl now?
do ppl know u want one?
the r scared that u will turn them down?!?!
The fact that you openly consider yourself "pretty, sweet, funny and super smart", means a) you probably think too highly of yourself and people notice b) intellegent people don't use the expression "super smart", so you probably aren't and c)Boys only ask out whores until they're about 25. Wait a few years.
check out the teen books those can tell you a lot.
Simple, baby. you are NOT sexually attractive. Period. That has to be the reason. One can be 'pretty' or kind of pretty & still not be sexually attractive, believe me. It takes all kinds in our species ; & you're 1 of them, Heidi. As I recall back in the day, our 'super smart' girls didn't have dates either. Further, if you're "1 of the guys", you must not be projecting much femininity. Last I knew, men are sexually attracted to & date girls because they are feminine, not because they are 1 of the guys.
just be yourself and you will be fine. don't try to be a girly girl just so a guy can look at you, there will be a guy that likes you for who you are