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Hello Cat,
Congratulations! Wanting to take charge of your body and get to know it intimately is a wonderful step forward in your sense of self and in taking control of your own pleasure. Good for you! <smile>
So many women have been taught since childhood that the physical body and its pleasures are nasty. They are too guilty or ashamed to learn about the body they'll be living in for at least 70 years. You have demonstrated courage just in asking this question. <smile>
First, get acquainted with what you look like. Yes, it means a mirror and doing with that just what you think it means. Find out what touching this or that feels like and whether or not you like it. A good lubrication can make this far more pleasant. Experiment with different pressures and touches until you find the areas most pleasing to you.
Your secondary areas need stimulations as well. Women have the gender advantage in sexuality in that their entire bodies, under skilled and loving attention, can be eroticized. Touching and stroking the neck, arms, tummy, breasts, inner thighs, and so forth can be a fine lead-in to more direct stimulation.
The clitoris can be too sensitive for direct sensation right away, but rubbing the little cover with whatever pressure feels right can be a pleasant pasttime. <smile> Don't concentrate on just the clitoris though. The labia can be aroused with teasing touches. You'll see visible signs of reddening and the labia will slowly puff out with arousal.
If you like the feeling of 'fullness', then a visit to the local erotic store can provide you with an incredible array of objects meant for that purpose. In this, I would be somewhat conservative when it comes to size selected. Or if it would be too much to visit a store like this in person, I'm sure you can find what you're looking for in an on-line venue.
Then, too, you can find lots of books on sexuality... which run the gamut from clinical to erotic. Find something you're comfortable in reading and learn even more.
Good luck, Cat, and may you find much pleasure in learning about yourself!
Tara
You just rub your clitoris or finger yourself inside your vagina. You should have long since explored your body years ago so that you knew what felt good and what made you orgasm. Since you didn't explore your body earlier in life then get going and make up for lost time.
Go to a bookstore and buy a book from the sexuality section. There are lots of books out there that you can learn all about the subject of sex.
a woman puts her finger in her clit lol u should no that if uhad a sex partner but then again theres other ways to